BEING A MAN/ MASCULINITY
·
“He had leaned down and whispered in my ear,
“Take care of your mother, you are the man of the house now”
·
“I have never seen Baba cry before “ thought his
father was tough
·
“I felt such a relief now that Baba was home.
Now everything can be normal again, I thought. Now I can leave the house
without worrying”
·
“ I wanted to speak to comfort her but I
couldn’t”
·
“I didn’t know what was the matter with me, but
was now more concerned for her.”
·
“Take care of your mother, you are the man of
the house now”. I buried my hands in my armpits trying to stop trembling –
tries to be brave
·
“I felt the desperate need to go to the
reception room, to be the one reaching for her hand”
·
“Everything
is going to be fine”
·
“You are my prince, one day you’ll be a man and
take me away on your white horse
·
“Listen, you, you have no word, you are not a
man because you have no word.”
·
“Unlike Mama and Moosa, he answered my question,
He didn’t treat me like a child
·
Men are never afraid. And you are a man, aren’t
you
·
“I will then be a man, heavy with the world” –
knows the burden of adulthood
·
“I
couldn’t wait to be a man. And not to do all the things normally associated
with manhood and its licence, but to change the past, to rescue that girl from
her black day”
·
“How much of him is there in me? Can you become
a man without becoming your father?”
·
“I felt we, Mama and I , would be safer this
way”
·
“I wanted to tell her , “Don’t worry, everything
will be all right”
·
“I almost never get nightmares”
·
BURDEN AND RESPONSIBILITY
·
“unable to leave her side”
·
“Several times I had woken up in the night to
make sure all cigarette butts on the ashtray beside her were out, looking under
the bed in case one had fallen there. This is one of the reasons why I couldn’t
leave her side when she was ill”
·
“exhausted
from listening to her craziness and from guarding her- afraid she would burn
herself or leave the gas on in the kitchen or, God forbid, leave the house
altogether and bring shame and talk down on us” – Suleiman understood that
letting others know about his mother’s illness would be shameful
·
“I would call out to her even though I didn’t
need her.” PROTECTIVE
·
“The things she told me pressed down on my
chest, so heavy that it seemed impossible to carry on living without spilling
them”
·
“Wrapping my arms round myself, doubling over:
this was the only way I could keep it all inside”
·
“I wondered how the world might change if even
for a second I was to look away, to relax the grip of my gaze. I was convinced
that if my attention was applied filly, disaster would be kept at bay and she
would return whole and uncorrupted”
·
“I felt a string in my heart break as I looked
back at Mama waving goodbye . Baba wasn’t home”
·
“calling for her dead father to return and save
her because it was too soon, she said,
all too much and too soon” – marriage,
motherhood
·
“A strange exhaustion came over me”
·
“That singing that had always evoked a girl
unaware of herself, walking home from school;, brushing her finders against the
wall: a moment before the Italian Coffee house, a moment sheltered in the
clarity of innocence, before the quick force which, without argument, without
even the chance to say, ‘No,’ thrust her over the border and into womanhood,
then irrevocably into motherhood”
·
The mum left him alone with the phone –
irresponsible
·
HEROIC ACTION
·
“You are my prince. One day you’ll be a man and
take me away on your white horse”
·
This is why I often lay in my darkened bedroom
dreaming of saving her”
·
Made excuses that Mama won’t let him go to
Lepcis when “she already told Baba you can” (sacrifice) - feels uneasy to leave
his mother alone (Reason for initially not willing to go to Lepcis)
·
“He didn’t struggle (Kareem’s dad)
·
“under Shahryar’s sword
·
“unable to look up into the sky or rest in the
silence and solitude of her own garden.
·
“She, I am certain now, was one of the bravest
people that had ever lived. It’s one thing not to fear death, another to sing
under it’s sword”
·
“I imagined him leaning with one arm against the
door, sweating, bleeding beautifully “ exactly like the heroes I saw in films”
·
“You are my prince. My beautiful prince”
·
“reading and rereading to him the newspaper
articles that you know would kindle the fire in his heart, urging him on, pushing-
always pushing- and if the printed words weren’t hot enough you would add in
your own bits, because you need a hero, you need someone to pluck you out of
your own failures”
·
“to prove to your good father that in the end
you were right to go against his will, that unlike everyone else you don’t need
a university degree because you were destined for greatness”
·
“Moosa’s idea for the “headquarters on Martyrs’
Square. How discreet! It’s hardly out of the way, hardly underground:
·
“Forward planning:
·
Likes attention?Dreams too big? Selfish
ambition?
·
“What heroic chords that word caused to resonate
in my ears” “reminded me of the solemn standing ovation the slaves had given to
their masters”
·
Made “Baba poised in admiration”
·
ADNAN “ with his own life and literature of
illness, seem to need no one
·
“Like my heroine, Scheherazade, he, too, was
living under the sword”
·
“You should find another model. Scheherazade
accepted slavery over death”
·
“picturing how I could have saved her then”
·
“I imagined what I would have done to save her”
·
“happy endings” in cowboy film contrast reality
·
“Where were the heroes… the happy endings
·
“Had he managed to delude himself that he could
still change things” “Had he come to prefer death over slavery, unlike my
Scheherazade, refusing to live under the sword”
·
OPPRESSION
·
“When Mama heard that her father had found her a
groom, she swallowed a ‘handful of magic pill’ “because they made a woman no
good. For who would want to remain married to a woman who couldn’t bear
children? In a few months, I thought, a year at the most, I’ll be free to
resume my schooling. It was a perfect plan, or so I thought.
·
“My father and brothers, the High Council”
·
“there will be no point screaming” - helpless
·
“I was his right, his wife under God”
·
“I was only fourteen but I knew what a man had
to do with his wife. Cousin Khadija, a chatterbox had fallen as silent as a
wall after her wedding night, had later, when she and I were alone, told me how
her husband had lost patience with her and with his fingers punctured her veil
and bled her”
·
“It was the duty of every man to prove his wife
a virgin”
·
“Not because she had as much to live as he, but
because if he were to kill her his sons would live “motherless”
·
“Scheherazade was a coward who accepted slavery
over death”
·
“Go call it by its name in your country. Here
it’s either silence or exile, walk by the wall or leave. Go be a hero somewhere
else.”
·
“How can any one of us prove that he or she is
not, and never was , a traitor”
·
“These people have no mercy”
·
“The acceptable age difference had to be at
least three years.”
·
“With such a gap no one could object or say she
would grow barren and old before he did. Because you had to think ahead. A
woman had to be young and strong enough to bear children and serve the man well
into his old age, so that her locks would remain black as coal when his head
was bald as the moon
·
“His tone changed when he addressed his wife, it
was rough and unrestrained”
·
“I cried because I understood that I was now the
property of another man”
·
“And that was how I knew it was over. A word had
been given and a word had been received, men’s words that could never be taken
back or exchanged”
FEAR
·
“Stopping at the next traffic light, she
whispered a prayer to herself. A car stopped so close besides is I could have
touched the driver’s check.”
·
“Dressed up dark safari suits”
·
“I felt my heart jump”
·
“said the
same prayer over and over. I felt the sweat gather between my palms and the
wax-paper wrapping of the sesame sticks.”
·
“Nothing better to do than give us an escort,
the rotten rats”
·
“Part of the punishment was not to allow me even
see a photograph of my future husband.”
·
“I was so frightened”
·
“They didn’t know how it felt waiting in that
room, where the complete stranger who was now my husband was going to walk in
alone and without introduction, undress me and do filthy, revolting things.”
·
“I walked up and down that room in my wedding
dress wondering what kind of a face my executioner had. Because that’s how I
saw it: they passed the judgement and he, the stranger armed with the marriage
contract signed by my father, was going to carry out the punishment
·
“What scared me the most during such nights was
how different Mama became. She said words in front of me that made my cheeks
blush and my heart shudder/ Saliva gathered in the corner of her lips. She
didn’t look beautiful anymore” LOSS OF RESPECT; FEAR
·
leaflets criticizing the Guide and his
revolutionary Committees
·
“I say somebody, but there must have been
hundreds, maybe even thousands of men”
·
“Everyone feared these leaflets and made a point
in tearing them in full view of their neighbours.
·
“They are going to get us all in trouble”
·
“It frightened me to see him like this because,
although he was often serious, he rarely became angry.”
·
“I am worried, worried for us’
·
“You have chosen a dead-end road:
·
“I am never invited to lunch parties any more”
·
“And if I invite my friends they won’t come”
·
“Cowards.” “No, just sensible”
·
Relatives avoid
·
“You can’t give people braver hearts”
·
Help me convince him to leave this wretched
path”
·
“Noon, you fill my heart with fear and dread,
showing me more than I want to see” – recognized the familiar / relates to the
poem, “something I thought I had experienced”
·
Mama “sounded like a small nervous fish alone in
the deep”
VIOLENCE
·
“As soon as the flowers came on Ustath Rashid
was probably beaten, I was certain he
was ‘ taught a good lesson’, ‘his face spared’ … but his body a ‘patchwork of
bruises’
·
“The man with the pockmarked face slapped Ustath
Rashid, suddenly and ferociously”
·
“You have chosen a dead-end road:
·
”Three years ago when those students dared to
speak. They hanged them by their necks. And now we are condemned to witness the
whole thing again. The foolish dreamers! And it’s foolish and irresponsible to
encourage them”
·
“I recalled how he beat Ustath Rashid. I
wondered what it would like to slap a man, to kick him like that in the behind”
·
“ I grabbed a handful of stones and hurled them
at him
·
“Every time I missed my anger hardened”
·
“I had never frightened anyone so much before”
·
“I slammed the doors hut and locked myself in
the room
·
S pushed his mum – little acts of violent
·
“you can’t hit each other over nothing”
·
The crowd’s reaction to Ustath Rashid’s
execution was “madness”
·
“his back criss-crossed in dark glistening
lines, some oozing blood”
·
“His eyes were closed, full off air or water ir
blood, like split rotten tomatoes, and his lower lip was a fat and purple
as BABY AUBERGINE
·
“One by one we’ll get there’ – comforting
mulberries reminded him that “they put their cigarettes “ on his temple
·
“I let the plates fall loudly”
·
“I often threw my shoe at the wall when it’s
lace refused to be untangled
·
CONTROL
·
They were the same Revolutionary Committee who
had come a week before and taken Ustath Rashid”
·
“Everyone knows you mustn’t overtake a
Revolutionary Committee car, and if you have to then you must do it discreetly,
without showing any pleasure in it”
·
“And occasionally he would chant, loud enough
for all the restaurant to hear, “Long live the Guide” towards a large mural”
which ‘showed the Colonel in his fill military uniform”
·
“And if the restaurant had a table of
Revolutionary Committee men, or Mokhabarat, people we called ANTENNAE, he
chanted, “El-Fateh, el-Fateh, el-Fateh,”
·
“no
one is ever beyond their reach”
·
“how
quickly, how there’s no space to argue, to say no”
·
USTATH JAFER- respected and feared among
the people as he is ““able to put people behind the sun” as I have heard it
said many times”
·
“You have chosen a dead-end road:
·
“I looked up at the sun. I thought, how strong is
the sun, how mighty, and felt frightened by it”
·
The possibility of it “ pressing down against us
like a giant balloon”
·
“We are not against the revolution, we are
against the extremes of the revolution”
·
”Three years ago when those students dared to speak.
They hanged them by their necks. And now we are condemned to witness the whole
thing again. The foolish dreamers! And it’s foolish and irresponsible to
encourage them”
·
“you must be careful of the sun”
·
“it can kill you”
·
“in five years he’ll be fourteen, they’ll make a
soldier out of him:
·
“They are
mighty” _ The revolutionary member
·
Even though the portrait was so big that “it was
impossible to ignore”
·
“I heard that the Guide had a switch in his
sitting room, beside his television set, so whenever he saw something he didn’t
like he flicked the flower on. POWER
·
“The men she called ‘ High Council’- the men who
met to decide her fate when she was onlyh fourteen”
·
“Now your father will think I haven’t brought
you right.” – blame on women, not men
·
“She seemed captive, captive in her own home,
continually failing to prepare herself for anything else.”
·
Mama was locked in her room for 30 days while
they looked for a groom for her
·
“You forbid to school, lock her away for thirty
days and now want to marry her to a complete stranger”
·
“Muammar el-Qaddafi” “the symbol of hope and
freedom”
·
The guide’s voice on the radio “Revolutionary
forces are capable of and have the right to use terror to eliminate anyone who
stands against the revolution”
·
‘Evader’ because I had not returned for military
service
·
‘Stray Dogs’ who refused to return
·
The government’s next move was to refuse my
parents a visa to leave the country, holding them hostage, as they were, until
the evading Stray Dog returmed
·
What could we possibly give her (our country)
that hasn’t already been taken”
·
Deposit liquid assets into the National Bank”
·
“the national currency had been redesigned, they
were told”
·
“only to be told afterwards that individual bank
withdrawals would be limited to one thousand dinars annually
·
My parents were badly affected by this
·
The following year, private savings accounts”
“were eliminated”
·
“my parents watched their money vanish ‘like
salt in water’
·
“Qaddafi decreed that anyone had the right to
claim a vacant property as their own”
·
·
POWER
·
“Everyone knows you mustn’t overtake a
Revolutionary Committee car, and if you have to then you must do it discreetly,
without showing any pleasure in it”
·
USTATH JAFER- respected and feared among
the people as he is ““able to put people behind the sun” as I have heard it
said many times”
·
Soft insides of the bread “used it to wipe hands
and mouths clean”
·
Dream : Baba “turned into a fish” fish = greed
·
“welcome, you have honoured us”
·
“rats”
·
“They can put him under the sun, Better try to
win them over”
·
“feeling a dark unstoppable force gain momentum”
·
“imagined their eyes gleaming with pride.”
·
“Perhaps
then he will understand that there was nothing to fear, that I am the boy and
he the
·
“my inauguration into the dark art if
submission”
·
“ I swear to God” “I have always liked you. Her
eyes wide open, eager to convince
·
“Her confidence was repulsive”
·
“He was a senior member if the Mokhabarat”
·
“Most of us secretly admired his power in
comparison with our parents”
·
POWER- given full attention
·
“because they used to mock him, couldn’t
understand his sensitivity”
·
“it was my father’s political involvement that
had scared them away
·
“how isolated we were”
·
“and now a mighty hand has come to his rescue
·
“She seemed to relish the silence that had to be
assumed while Mama made the tea”
·
“reminded of that secret rush of power I had
felt chasing him around the garden, throwing stones at his back”
·
Corruption “ that they would see it that
‘friends in high places’ would doctor my file, cross out the words ‘stray dog’
·
LOYALTY/friendship
·
“That’s the fate of all traitors”
·
“but Ustath Rashid was his friend” “he couldn’t
keep silent: when Um Masoud said Ustath Rashid was a traitor
·
Baba showed loyalty at start
·
Kareem
·
Close friendship between Auntie Salma and
Suleiman’s mother
·
“Their wives were like two lost sisters who had
finally found each other.”
·
“no two days would pass before one called or
visited the other”
·
From them who “talked endlessly”
·
“ I wished the Revolutionary Committee would
return and this time take my father so that we would be equal, united again by
that mysterious bond of blood that up to that day felt like an advantage”
·
“Sorry we didn’t stand arm-in-arm to block the
way”
·
“He loves his books more than anything else. One
day they’ll come to burn them and us with them” – dedicated; passionate
·
“To my eternal friend and comrade” “With my
undying loyalty, Rashid
·
“the book Ustath Rashid had gifted Baba with his
‘undying loyAlty’
·
“Usthat Rashid said, ‘no’ when Baba’s name was
mentioned. I knew this was the opposite of betrayal”
·
“they had each other, one person clapping
wouldn’t do”
·
“the
Revolutionary Committee man, Sharief, “ “loyal to his cause” “confidence and
youth “seemed beyond age and need, a man calling for the world to keep up with
him”
·
“At a time like this we should stay together”
·
“My heart had never ached with more longing, longing
for my true friend twelve hours away now in Benghazi
·
“This meant that even if they were allowed to,
during the first years of my stay in Cairo, my parents couldn’t afford to
visit; and, more crucially, the cost of my education and living couldn’t be met
and therefore had to be endured in total by Judge Yaseen who was amiable about
the whole thing”
·
“You and I are one man. Suleiman is like my own”
·
Seing his letter “made me long for my childhood
friend”
BETRAYAL
·
“Betrayal was a hand squeezing my throat”
·
“Blood is going to be spilled either way”
·
If “you didn’t turn out virtuous and true, your
father was prepared to take your life
·
“No need for you to be so close to that boy” and
“She had never called him ‘that boy’ before”
·
Suleiman’s mother tells Suleiman “try not to be
so close to him (Kareem)”
·
“This is
a time for walking beside the wall”
·
Kareem didn’t have the “sadness of longing, it
was the sadness of betrayal, the silent sadness that comes from being let down”
·
“You let a boy beat you”
·
“I am not a child”
·
“Yes you are” “with an irritation that made the
betrayal harsher”
·
“Kareem entrusted you with his secret love for
Leila”
·
Calling himself a “traitor” “heard the tremor in
my voice” as he tries to
·
“I had seen such interrogations before broadcast
on television. They are meant to show the nation the ‘faces of the traitors’
·
“did he leave in disgust when he saw how close I
and the man who had taken his father were becoming, I wondered.
·
Khaled- “the one who gave me up, betrayed me.”
·
“When I was caught and flogged with a bamboo
stuck on the front and back of my hands, I lied and told them it was his idea.
It didn’t feel wrong at the time, but when he eventually was brought into the
room and saw me I felt terrible. I had betrayed him,
·
“Since we found out about Rashid, we have nothing
to do with him or his family
·
“your father was very cooperative, melted like
butter”
·
“I can’t bear looking at him” “The betrayal in
his eyes”
·
“Only yesterday you were ready to die for him,
now you wish he had died for you”
·
GUILT
·
“Then, as was usual on the mornings after she
had been ill, she took me on a drive to pull me out of my silence, to return me
to myself again”
·
“bought as many sesame sticks as I wanted”
·
she would come and sit beside me, comb my hair
with her fingers and apologize and sometimes even cry a little” – remorseful ;
affectionate
·
“She would look away and say “You shouldn’t have
heard that
·
“On the mornings after she was always nice.”
·
She didn’t mind stopping under the pedestrian
bridge “so I could watch the bad boys hanging about the fast traffic and some,
the truly brave ones, by their ankles.”
·
“Normally when we passed under them, she would
ask me to shut my eyes.”
·
“But on such mornings she was happy to park
beside them and let me watch. Sometimes, she would even say “ I must admit,
they are quite brave. “Then , “Promise me you would never do that. Promise me
you would always protect yourself.”
·
“On some mornings, she took me ALL THE WAY to
town just to buy sesame sticks.
·
“if she had been very ill the night before, she
would take me to Signor Il Calzoni’s restaurant in the sea”
·
“I was affected by Mama’s words, I did feel
myself nudged by guilt whenever Kareem and I were alone.”
·
“She began to speak to herself,’ it’s all your
fault. If anything happens to him everyone will blame you, say you were napping
while your own son needed you. He’s only a child, Najwa, what were you
thinking?”
·
“Something
in me was ashamed if what I had done to Bahloul”
·
“I thought of saying ‘Poor Kareem’ but I didn’t
·
“for abandoning my parents,
·
ANGER/BITTERNESS
·
“Not caring if I lost her or became lost from
her in the big city”
·
“I felt my cheeks burn with anger: where is
Baba? He should be here because when he’s home everything is normal, she is
never ill and I am never woken up like this to find everything changed”
·
“You,” I
would shout- shout because I was unable not to”
·
“I imagined how it would be to live without her.
A warm swirl spun in my belly, something warm and dependable gripped my heart
and sent a rush through me. I wasn’t sure if it was fear or excitement that I
felt at the thought of losing her.”
·
Mama : “What do you want from me?
·
“I have given up everything for you. You’re not
even satisfied”
·
“On the way home I regretted all the talking and
laughing, regretted breaking my silence, allowing myself to be tricked like a
cat teased out from beneath a bed with a string.”
·
“after she had been ill, I was angry at her”
·
“Ifelt my cheeks burn with an anger that seemed
to come from nowhere.”
·
“Mama was crying. I felt my anger doubling. I
slapped the table.”
·
“Every time
I missed my anger hardened”
·
“I slammed the doors hut and locked myself in
the room
·
INNOCENCE/ A CHILD’S PERSPECTIVE
·
“Her medicine bottle half empty on the breakfast
table”
·
“I knew it was her medicine, bad for her, and
bad for me, but doubtful of the world and my place in it, I said nothing.”
·
“Children are useless in a war”
·
“I begged him several times and once I felt so
sick with sadness that I screamed, kicked his shins and pummelled his thighs,
and, when Mama restrained me, I cried and called him ‘Ugly’
·
“sometimes it brought tears to my eyes”
“Sometimes I wanted to ask him how he saw, how he imagined us and the world,
but I didn’t know how to ask such questions then”
·
“I always suspected there was a different reason
why, when Baba was home, Mama didn’t sleep in her room”
·
“I lay that night unable to sleep, wondering- an
d feeling fear, guilt and anger at my wondering- if I shouldn’t have done
something to stop it; if unbeknown to me Mama needed my help” – righteous,
wanna do the right thing
·
“And what a failure I prove to be” – harsh
critical reflection
·
“I was confused. Why wasn’t he furious?:
·
“I was surprised by how easy it was to get rid
of him, how willing he was to obey me. It made me feel guilty”
·
“Perhaps then he will understand that there was
nothing to fear, that I am the boy and he the man, I thought.
·
S immediately answers his family name to the
stranger in the phone
·
“Nasser is a very nice person” – childish
·
‘”I couldn’t lift her, couldn’t carry her.
Because I was only nine”
·
LOSS OF INNOCENCE/ GROWING
UP
·
“She hadn’t fallen asleep until the sky was grey
with dawn. And even then I was so rattled I couldn’t leave her side, wondering
if, like one of those hand-puppets that play dead, she would bounce up again,
light another cigarette and continue begging me, as she had been doing before,
not to tell, not to tell.”
No longer believes parents are perfect,
losses respect for mother
·
“Their eyes were on Mama”
·
“I began to feel sorry and sad on how such
mornings she was always generous and embarrassed as if she had walked out
naked. I wanted to run to her, to hold her hand, latch on to her dress as she
shopped and dealt with the world, a world full of men and the greed of men.”
·
“I tell myself off for being stubborn and for
letting her buy me so many”
·
“exhausted from listening to her craziness and
from guarding her- afraid she would burn herself or leave the gas on in the
kitchen or, God forbid, leave the house altogether and bring shame and talk
down on us” – Suleiman understood that letting others know about his mother’s
illness would be shameful
·
“My heart eased and my back grew taller”
·
“I would come into the house and notice a
certain stillness, something altered. I knew without knowing how I knew.”
·
“when I saw her eyes lost in her face and heard
her voice, that strange nervous giggle, I was certain Mama was ill again.”
·
“shocked when I repeated to her the things she
told me the night before”
·
“What scared me the most during such nights was
how different Mama became. She said words in front of me that made my cheeks
blush and my heart shudder/ Saliva gathered in the corner of her lips. She
didn’t look beautiful anymore” LOSS OF RESPECT; FEAR
·
“A boy your age should never speak such things”
·
“I never again asked him to take me with him or
cried in front of him when he came to leave.”
·
While the mother says calmly “It’s alright”
“It’s his country too”
·
His father trues to protect Suleiman’s innocence
and yell “Go to your room” . “He shouldn’t see this”
·
“with room for
one more, ,reserved for Baba” – understood/ aware of the situation
·
“For a long time I believed that photograph:
that on that day Baba was in fact standing among trees washed in warm
sunlight.” And so, when I realized that the whole thing was a trick, I felt
cheated”
·
The picture of Baba, “his smile changed” ,
insinuating the change in respect?
·
“Children aren’t suppose to know these things”
·
“I knew he was lying” – about Sharief being good
friends with his father
·
“Unlike Mama and Moosa, he answered my question,
He didn’t treat me like a child
·
Aware/ familiar that Echo means tapped / privacy
·
Suleiman
sees the interrogation of a man accused of being a traitor on television
·
He
understands that “his body is a patchwork of bruises”
·
“You are no longer a baby”
·
Opened the window when the gas was left - knows
what to do; takes care of himself
·
Join their discussion about the execution
·
Traumatised “shut or open, my eyes continued
to see the slim figure of Ustath Rashid swinging in the mid-air”
·
“Apart from making me lose trust in the
assumption that good things happen to good people, the televised execution of
Usthat h Rashid” gave “no illusions that /I or Baba or Mama were immune from
being burned by the madness that overtook the National Basketball Stadium”
·
“You always lie. I am not a child and you always
lie”
·
MORALITY/ RELIGION
·
“I felt sick, anxious that I had done the wrong
thing. Baba wasn’t on a business trip”
·
“Why had I not acted?”
·
“The innocent, Sheikh Mustafa, the imam of our
local mosque, had told me, have no cause to fear, only the guilty live in fear”
·
“Although I knew Bahloul was mad, these words,
these meaningless words that he always repeated, increased my confusion. I
wondered if he thought I was stealing my neighbours’ berries and was announcing
himself the witness”
·
“Was I stealing? I wasn’t sure”
·
“My heart shuddered. I tried to look, to seem,
to feel innocent because, as Sheikh Mustafa had told me, the innocent has no
cause to fear”
·
“It is our obligation to call injustice by its
name”
·
“I beg you” “Conceal my shame”
·
“This is not only forbidden by God and
tradition, it is also illegal”
·
“Walk by the wall” “look the other way,this is
their time, not ours”
·
“Something in me was ashamed if what I had
done to Bahloul”
·
“I felt bad that I had lied to him”
·
“if she ever needs drinking company, to call on
me” “I too get my medicine from that scoundrel, Majdi – illegal
·
The ambulance door he “shut it with great care”
·
“accepting Osama’s anger, agreeing that I wasn’t
innocent, that Adnan was the ultimate victim “
·
“I thought of saying sorry, but I collected my
flippers and walked away”
LOVE
·
“I had kissed his hands like he taught me to”
·
“hoping
he would call my name, wave his hand, snap his fingers. I swear if he had I
would have leaped into his arms.”
·
“I watched his solemn expression- an expression
I admired and feared”
·
“I didn’t want the conversation to end”
·
“I was so close I could have touched the
driver’s cheek and I wasn’t frightened. Not at all. Not even a little, I`
wasn’t”
·
“We are two halves of the same soul, two open
pages of the same book,”
·
“Words that felt like a gift I didn’t want”
·
“For although I feared those nights when we were
alone and she was ill, I never wanted her to stop talking. Her story was mine
too, it bound us, turned us into one,” “Two halves of the same soul, two open
pages of the same book” as she used to say
·
“I didn’t know you were going to be so beautiful,
fill my heart”
·
“You are my miracle”
·
“Promise me you would never do that. Promise me
you would always protect yourself.”
·
Moosa “I know how much you love him”
·
“Mama and I spent most of the time together- she
alone, I unable to leave her”
·
“Although her unpredictability and her urgent
stories tormented me, my vigil and what I could only explain as her illness
bound us into an intimacy that has since occupied the innermost memory I have
of love”
·
“There was anger, there was pity, even the dark
warm embrace of hate, but always love and always the joy that surrounds the
beginning of love.”
·
Kareem and Suleiman share a strong bond “
Because what united Kareem and me rarely felt like friendship, but something
like blood or virtue”
·
Suleiman – caring “Who upset you, Baba” when he
saw tears in his father’s eye
·
“Don’t leave this room “ Moosa proctecting
·
“You are well, that’s what matters, that’s all
that matters” ”Concealer, conceal our faults”
·
Moosa wants to protect S, doesn’t discuss about
the revolutionary members when he is around
·
“What’s the matter, habibi, light of my eyes?”
·
“watching Egyptian romance films where lovers
and love are never satisfied”
·
“Their melodrama seems to mock love:
·
“Strengthen her doubts about love and confirm
her instinct to go without it, accepting- always accepting – a life forced upon
her”
·
“my check warmed by her pillow, wondering how
can /heaven be anything ither than this” – motherly love, warmth and affection
– valued
·
“But no, I must be a good wife, loyal and
unquestioning, support my man regardless. I’ll support nothing that puts my son
in danger.
·
“I won’t
follow. I will get my son out of this place if it takes the last of me”
·
“darkly content with the world I was given,
thankful to be hers”
·
“I began to consider this, consider it seriously.
Particularly because Mother began to sound depressed, recalling the missed
opportunities: the education and careers she might have had. Loneliness seemed
to remind her if all the things she had missed”
·
“When I reach her she kisses my hands, my forehead,
m y cheeks, combs my hair with her fingers, straightens my collar”
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